Spoiler alert: They want to feel and look vibrant and it’s their choice. *This blog is personal, and has been brewing for quite some time. Hope you find it helpful for you and the women in your lives* I am 42 years-old. I have abundant energy, goals, and long-term life plans. It is difficult for me to accept things that our mothers, and their mothers, accepted to set their dreams and lives aside because of their wellness struggles that came with age – at ages very close to mine.